Letting Go. . .

Posted: May 23, 2008 in life
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Sometimes its hard. Sometimes its easy. It all depends on what or who you have to let go. Whether you must or you simply should, it doesn’t matter. Sometimes letting go is a release of some sort. Its an escape. Its a start of a new beginning for you. But before you can begin life anew, you must let go.

Forgetting the past and let everything else flow through. Life can’t go on if you’re still hung up on something that could ruin your days ahead. Why is it so hard letting go a precious jewel, a priceless moment in your life but knowing full well that you should? You seek answers to millions of questions that pop into your head.

You make a list of pros and cons if you do let go of something that you probably think might not get a chance to experience again in the future. Sometimes that list doesn’t even make any sense. Just like holding onto the past; most of the time it just doesn’t make any logical sense at all. Funny thing is, sometimes in life you are the one being let go

Sometimes you become the burden in someone else’s life. Or you became their predicament. Or at least having you in their lives would deter them from growing and maturing; living life as they should. Yeah,.a burden. As much as other people or moments that pulls you down and roots you firmly, stagnant and unmoving.

Which is easier you think? Being let go…or letting go..of something…of someone. Or is it both quite a predicament in itself? A moment in life, a dark chapter in your history…maybe it is a blessing if you are able to. Or maybe its a curse waiting to jump out and scare the living hell out of you…

A blessing and a curse then…sometimes the weights on our shoulders are too hard for us alone to carry. And to move on and take a further step in life we must somehow get rid of it. Even we ourselves unaware as we mostly are, could also be burdens to other people in our lives. We just don’t know it…and others’ that are our burdens also don’t know it too. Or all of us are simply being ignorant of what we actually know. Take your pick.

So maybe in doing so, both could benefit from letting go and/or being let go. Somehow it becomes a cycle in life. All in all its beneficial and compulsory to let go…and as you go through with your life, you are the one being let go. But when that happens there’s no need to frown. Its a cycle, vicious as it is; its’ life.

Just rejoice in the fact that either letting go or otherwise; there’s always a lesson to be learned. Always a reason for it to happen too. So chill,…its’ awesome indeed to go through this life without having to ponder too much about such trivial matters. Yes,..its trivial. Cause’ its in the past. Trying to label it as other than that would only drive one crazy; which is okay if you like spending the rest of you life in a mental institute..;]

“There’s nothing wrong to wonder about the past or future once awhile; but not at the expense of the present.”- [K]

[Then why am I…so.. FuckeD-Up ‘inside’?…]

  1. Acom says:

    \\For me, letting go is a lot harder than being let \\go, just because letting go is a conscious decision. Knowing that you should let doesn’t make it any easier. I think I’ve only gone through it a couple of times, it and felt like I was physically cutting some part of my anatomy. Slowly. It takes a lot longer for emotions to clot, than blood.

    But you’re right. There’s a sense of escapism in letting go. Even just the though of “God, I don’t have to worry about it anymore” makes you feel that much lighter. But that usually comes a lot later.

    But feeling is good. I’m all for feeling. If you can take the highs, you can damn well make sure you can take the bad. 🙂

  2. massy says:

    Letting go, it’s an easy word to say, not holding to the things u used to could be a total lost sometimes, but the thing with human emotions, it’s not as easy as it looks like. It’s the same thing as forgive and forget, u know for the fact u’ve already forgive but could u possibly can totally forget everything? I mean EVERYTHING? I’m not saying that it’s not possible, it is, u juz maybe need distractions and stop reminding urself constantly about it. It juz takes time, and when I say time, it’s not overnight @_@

    But that’s the thing that makes us human rite? Emotions, memories etc etc, experience to live a better happy life. I bet everyone is f***** up in their own way. It’s juz how u present urself to the world, to make urself a better person. *peace

  3. bebe says:

    I always find the positive in every situation. Life is way to short to make it hard.Everything you do, there is a lesson to be learned, no matter what.Take our mind off of what we are obsessing over.Allow ourself to hold on and we need to allow ourself to let go. I know it’s hard to do but at least try.:)Now I am trying in everyway.

  4. Somehow i missed the point. Probably lost in translation 🙂 Anyway … nice blog to visit.

    cheers, Supportiveness.

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